The Lassie Pill
Teaching self control to a dog is much like having a child and teaching him/her not to pound their silverware on the table while waiting for dinner or run up and down the aisle at a restaurant disturbing the other patrons. It can be very difficult to teach, but in the end, it is very influential in the success of your child in society and gaining friends. Teaching self control could even mean whether your child finishes school and gets a job! It is exactly the same for dogs in their success with other dogs, with friends of ours and his ability to not become the stray in the shelter.
Dogs need to learn self control, too. The modern jargon used by many trainers is “impulse control”. Impulse control or self control means a dog’s ability to resist constant out of control behaviors such as jumping on people, barking at everything, chasing cars, and so on.
I see impulse or self control as a dog’s ability to relax, be comfortable in any situation and defer to their owner’s direction. So many dogs are reeling in undirected energy that it can become anxiety. Not only does lack of self control become a problem to live with on an everyday basis, lack of self control can lead to anxiety that over time becomes emotional distress for a dog. That may translate into separation anxiety or even aggression, particularly fear aggression.
In our modern society, many of us want our dogs to enjoy freedom, running in joy and play times with other dogs. As such, the development of dog parks and day cares have sprouted up and become a part of everyday life for many dogs and owners. While we owners have begun to recognize the importance of exercise that the dog parks and day care situations provide, we somewhere along the line might have lost the concept of a dog’s emotional stability through self control, or learning obedience. AND, even more critical is that we have lost the joy that obedience or learning self control brings to our relationship between us and our dogs!
Compounding the illusive impulse control is the lack of time many of us have to devote to obedience training. Many times, anxiety the dog feels from lack of self control, is overlooked until it becomes critical. Then, we want a quick fix, or as I call it, the Lassie Pill. We send our dogs out to be trained and returned to us as an angel dog we dreamed of. While this is indeed a good choice for many reasons and people, it may not address the RELATIONSHIP that develops between the owner and the dog when they work together as a team. The owner learns who their dog is, and the dog in return, learns the comfort of direction and respect for his owner.
Teaching your dog self control can be so rewarding for both you and your dog. In the long run, it can save your dog’s life when he learns not to chase the squirrel across the street, and can save you the embarrassment when your dog doesn’t jump on your guests’ new white dress! It may even save your dog from freeform anxiety that can be seen as pacing, panting, drooling and reactive barking.
